14-09-2025 03:57 PM
14-09-2025 03:57 PM
Hi @StuF @Jynx @Cuddlebear @tyme @ENKELI .
Is it memories what we need ??
My oldest son acts in a way to me that shows he has had therapy about me.
We do ---- did argue and today he doesnt talk to me but
Is it that i live in hope ?
Is it that i found out he goes to therapy because how he screamed at me at beginning of the year?
@StuF @Jynx @Cuddlebear @tyme @ENKELI @TAB @tyme @Ru-bee
How can i re,-begin my hobbies ?
14-09-2025 03:59 PM
14-09-2025 03:59 PM
@PeppyPatti Facebook is simple to set up, I've had mine for many years now but it's not difficult, you just need to know how to set privacy settings if you don't want everyone seeing your posts and information.
14-09-2025 03:59 PM
14-09-2025 03:59 PM
Aww @PeppyPatti 😍
I am grateful to be able to bear witness to the incredible journey of every one of our members - so thanks for sharing 💜
14-09-2025 04:08 PM
14-09-2025 04:08 PM
Just saw your other post @PeppyPatti - sorry to hear about your son, hopefully the therapy can help you both in the end 🤞
Re-starting hobbies is a tricky one... I think sometimes you need to just start and push through a little bit, and the fun will come later when you're back into the flow of things
14-09-2025 10:31 PM
14-09-2025 10:31 PM
@PeppyPatti @Glisten @Jynx @tyme I can't relate to past trauma like a lot of my Sane fam. I didn't have a bad childhood, in fact it was great. We were extremely poor and I lived in hand me downs but there was never a moment that I felt unloved or unhappy. In fact up until I was in my 30's when I was diagnosed with depression I had a pretty well adjusted life. Later I was diagnosed with bipolar 2 and I looked back on my 20's and 30's pre diagnosis and knew that I was severely depressed around that time of the month and would often have SI but it wasn't until I was bullied a few years back by work managers that my mental health spiralled. I can't relate to how it feels to have been treated badly to the point it causes mental health problems, when I was bullied at school it was stopped pretty quickly because my mum intervened.
I tell y'all this because if I don't respond to a post you tag me in it's not because I don't care, it's because I can't relate and don't know what to say.
Much love and hugs xo
15-09-2025 08:43 PM
15-09-2025 08:43 PM
Good point @ENKELI when it comes to being Tagged in posts. If I don’t respond it’s because I’m attending to my own needs, my family, or I simply don’t have a response.
Like right now taking this opportunity to respond while sitting in my car, waiting for the Bully Community Garden members to rock up for 7pm AGM.
I was half an hour early. Because I don’t have time to read emails 🤣
16-09-2025 06:12 AM
yesterday
an hour ago
@PeppyPatti Hello lovely how are you? I’m sorry to hear about your son. I’m really hoping that in the future things will work out. Therapy can help a lot with that.
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