26-11-2025 08:05 PM
26-11-2025 08:05 PM
@TAB nice to see you. Pity the support button isn't working.
Hmm my place has scattered stuff but mostly in stacks. So less bombsite, more junkyard.
You've probably had a lot on your plate healthwise.
7 years? It still leaves a gap. Dunno what my late mother would say, she tended to exude disapproval rather than articulating criticism or anything else that could pass as guidance or encouragement.
26-11-2025 08:23 PM
26-11-2025 08:23 PM
the usual roster of tests, scans etc ,yet outcomes not changed @Dimity
must have been father I mentioned re 7years gone. w.e never really got along. prettysure eh thought my Life was Failure.
He was completely absent parent. As may have said , others seemed to cope, it was just me ,the exception to the Rule . Apparently.
26-11-2025 08:34 PM
26-11-2025 08:34 PM
Commiserations @TAB from another failure. We've survived.
Sorry to hear of your tests and scans. Fingers crossed the results are manageable. I'm booked in overnight in January for another one.
26-11-2025 08:36 PM
26-11-2025 08:36 PM
@Dimity my support button is not working so well done on joining the 2 support groups. That IS a big thing 🙂
26-11-2025 08:38 PM
26-11-2025 08:41 PM
26-11-2025 08:41 PM
..another one , what ? @Dimity I am edging my way into december
Tomorrow's selection is:
not been told whats happening after procedure re me being only the ONE person for anaesthetic rules and release fm hosp
they did not ring today (when they said they would)
just a big eff around , and its all on me , good or bad , ok all bad inthis case ba ha ha lol
26-11-2025 08:52 PM
26-11-2025 08:52 PM
Oh @TAB that's a lot. Such a lot for you and yes as a single there's that expectation re overnight monitoring. That's why I'm relieved I persuaded them to admit me overnight after routine endoscopy. I had a bad trot 4 years ago and worse earlier this year and didn't want to impose on extended family.
Can a neighbour feed your cat? Or is there a local cattery?
26-11-2025 09:03 PM
26-11-2025 09:03 PM
..day or 2 doesnt matter re cat @Dimity it can get inside house , plus will leave food out
yeah at regional hosp was way less fuss. they just found a room and that was it
its city ok outskirts this time, staff generally no people skills and sh!t workplace etc based on past visits
26-11-2025 09:14 PM
26-11-2025 09:14 PM
Best of luck for tomorrow @TAB hope it all goes well including drive to & fro. If I don't catch up with you again next week I do hope the procedure goes well.
I hate living in the city in many ways but proximity to medical stuff is a boon. I hope the regional hospital can meet most of your needs.
Take care.
26-11-2025 10:37 PM
26-11-2025 10:37 PM
@ENKELI thanks for your support. I can't support you with the button either.
Happy to support you if/when you tackle the tubs in your carport. I need to get on top of my paperwork and IT stuff before doing much else. I've just reached out to a handyman for some small jobs I've been putting off.
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