@greenpea , The reason why I lasted so long was for the kids, I was the buffer between her and them, sacrifice myself for them. I lasted for as long as I could, the final straw was when she was trying to change me to be more like a local guy she had been chatting to on Facebook, apparently I wasn't "c*nty" enough, I said I'm not going to be like that to someone I care about. After her and I split, she went after her crush, almost ruined his marriage when his wife caught him and her in their kitchen, the ex wife's name was mud in the town, she didn't show her face for many many months there.
