I hear you on that @Oaktree .. And see your thinking. My shrink always said to me that if you give someone ice creams when they complain, you run the risk of training them to complain.
Mind you, he was known as a hard man. But I have seen it happen with , 'some' the nations children
who then grow up to still be adult children, looking for a mother to marry. These "big' babies don't get the outcomes they just assumed they are entitled to, we end up with record domestic violence.
Of course I'm generalizing, but I now have 4 woman that come and go from here that all were
victims of the. the 'Ice cream' generation. How many times do you see the mothers of criminals
say . . . My boy wouldn't do anything wrong . . . I guess thats why I would rather point out a positive
side to a negative, than just toss one more get well card on the pile. But I do think a mix of both is important.
I'm not worried at all @Oaktree . I have in the past had help regarding posting pics and protecting my privacy. Also updates on actions taken against 2 members that were abusive to me. sent in private emails. I new I
would not get feedback because I was well intentioned in all my correspondence.
Is it perfect. NO, but its about the overall flavour and intent, and I'm never ever abusive. hey my friend. Your a good example.
Your day may have got rained out, but you took what you could not change, and made it into something better. . @Glisten @SmilingGecko and others on this thread, and you, set the bar high for keeping a positive mood and saving us all from endless drear n fog. It keeps me coming back.
Think thats why I like the poetry thread. We can channel things into something there, call it a picture n walk away. And thanks by the way to Sane for showing tolerance in that thread.
Thankyou for you kind support sis. Hug to you and hubby, Have you had a look at a motor home ?
I'm making dinner for everyone so I better start scrubbing spuds.. Kind thoughts tns.
